Episodes

Friday Aug 16, 2024
Dating Dilemmas: Navigating Expectations and Realities
Friday Aug 16, 2024
Friday Aug 16, 2024
Join us in this engaging episode as our host, Tavonna, leads a spirited discussion with a diverse panel of guests including Jamie, Damon, Sage, and more. They dive into the nuanced topic of dating expectations versus realities, particularly focusing on the so-called "wifely" and "husbandly" duties. Should men be expected to provide financially while dating? Should women feel obligated to cook, clean, and more? Our panel shares personal anecdotes and varied perspectives to unpack these complex questions.The conversation also touches on the importance of clear communication in relationships, the impact of societal norms on dating, and the personal experiences of guests who have navigated long-term relationships and the single life. Whether you're curious about modern dating challenges or looking for advice on how to set boundaries and communicate your needs, this episode offers valuable insights and practical tips for anyone in the dating scene.Don't miss out on this thought-provoking discussion that promises to challenge your views and provide a fresh perspective on love, relationships, and dating in today's world.

Friday Aug 09, 2024
Understanding Emotional Blackmail: Personal Stories and Insights
Friday Aug 09, 2024
Friday Aug 09, 2024
Welcome to today's show where we dive deep into the topic of emotional blackmail, a manipulation tactic where someone uses your emotions to control your behavior. We explore various forms such as threats, ultimatums, guilt trips, and gaslighting. Our guests, Deborah, Miss All Hazel, Jermaine, Sage, and others, share their personal experiences of being victims and, at times, unknowingly being the initiators of emotional blackmail.We discuss the importance of understanding and recognizing these behaviors in relationships, whether romantic or familial, and the impact they have on our mental health. Through heartfelt stories and insightful discussions, we shed light on how to navigate and set boundaries in such situations.Additionally, we explore the concept of performance reviews in relationships, inspired by Ms. Jackson's analogy of comparing relationship dynamics to job performance evaluations. This thought-provoking discussion encourages couples to regularly check in with each other to ensure mutual happiness and growth.Join us for this eye-opening conversation as we learn to identify emotional manipulation and foster healthier, more supportive relationships.

Sunday Aug 04, 2024

Sunday Jul 28, 2024
Navigating Compromise vs. Settling in Relationships: A Candid Discussion
Sunday Jul 28, 2024
Sunday Jul 28, 2024
Navigating Compromise vs. Settling in Relationships: A Candid Discussion### Description:Join us in this engaging episode as we delve into the intricate dynamics of compromise and settling in relationships. With an open, unscripted format, our panel explores key questions around personal satisfaction, gender roles, and the boundaries of support and accountability. Through real-life examples and heartfelt conversations, we aim to uncover when sacrifices in relationships turn into settling and how to navigate these challenges effectively.Our diverse group of speakers brings unique perspectives to the table, including insights on handling financial disparities, managing emotional and sexual needs, and the importance of setting boundaries. Whether you're in a committed relationship or navigating the dating world, this episode offers valuable takeaways on maintaining balance and satisfaction in your personal life.Don't miss this thought-provoking discussion filled with practical advice, personal stories, and a touch of humor. Tune in and share your thoughts with us!

Friday Jul 19, 2024
Friday Jul 19, 2024
In this engaging episode, we delve into the complexities of love languages and their impact on relationships. Our panel, featuring Tavonna, Chantel, Debra, and Ms. Jackson, discusses the significance of understanding and communicating in your partner's love language. We explore a controversial analysis of a Tyler Perry movie, examining the characters' actions and the implications of their love languages.The conversation highlights the importance of knowing your own and your partner's love languages, and how miscommunication can lead to feelings of neglect and betrayal. We also address the male perspective on emotional vulnerability and the ultimate sign of betrayal—sharing secrets. This episode provides valuable insights into fostering healthier, more understanding relationships.

Friday Jul 12, 2024
The Sassy Debate: Gender Roles, Healing, and Communication
Friday Jul 12, 2024
Friday Jul 12, 2024
Welcome to today's episode where our panelists – Deborah, Shannon, Damon, and Unique – dive into the intriguing topic of "sassy men." The discussion kicks off with defining what "sassy" means when referring to men and whether seeking praise for everyday tasks falls under this category.
The conversation then shifts to the impact of calling men "sassy" and how it affects their willingness to communicate. The panelists share their perspectives on whether certain behaviors should be labeled as sassy and the broader implications of such labels in relationships.
We also explore the concept of healing in relationships. What does it mean to be truly healed? Is healing a continuous journey or a state one can fully achieve? The panelists discuss their views on how past experiences shape current behaviors and whether those behaviors should be considered healed or simply a part of one's character.
The episode wraps up with a lively debate on gender roles. Are they outdated or still relevant in modern relationships? Our panelists share their personal experiences and opinions on dividing responsibilities and how societal expectations influence our views on gender roles.
Join us for a thought-provoking discussion that challenges conventional wisdom and offers fresh perspectives on communication, healing, and the ever-evolving dynamics of gender roles in relationships.

Friday Jul 05, 2024
Friday Jul 05, 2024
Welcome to today's episode where Coach Han and his co-hosts dive into the intricate dynamics of modern relationships. Joined by guest panelists Zippor Najia, Deborah, and Robin, the discussion kicks off with an intriguing question: Do men categorize women upon meeting them? Listen as the panel explores the complexities of intentions, honesty, and communication in relationships.Deborah poses a thought-provoking question about men's initial perceptions of women and whether these perceptions can change over time. The conversation expands to include perspectives on the importance of being true to oneself and the impact of societal expectations on personal decisions. The men on the panel share their views on what actions symbolize love and commitment, shedding light on how they express their feelings beyond words.As the episode unfolds, the discussion touches on the significance of body count, the challenges of maintaining honesty, and the different ways men and women navigate their desires and expectations. Join us for a candid and insightful conversation that delves into the heart of what it means to truly connect with someone in today's world.

Friday Jun 28, 2024
Live FromMars: The Truth About Relationships
Friday Jun 28, 2024
Friday Jun 28, 2024
Welcome to today's episode of "Men Up For Mars"! Our co-hosts Carrie Unique, Damon, Nikki, and Deborah dive into thought-provoking questions sent in by our listeners. The discussion kicks off with an intriguing question for the men: "What are the red flags when vetting for a long-term relationship?" Sean leads the conversation, highlighting cleanliness and money management as his top non-negotiables.The conversation takes a deeper turn as we explore the impact of a partner's cleanliness on first impressions and long-term compatibility. Damon and other co-hosts weigh in, sharing personal experiences and preferences. We also address the evolving roles and expectations in relationships, emphasizing the importance of self-esteem and personal goals.The episode then tackles a sensitive topic: "Why are men obsessed with sex?" Our hosts candidly share their perspectives, touching on the psychological, emotional, and physical aspects. We delve into personal anecdotes and societal influences that shape our views on intimacy and connection.Next, we explore what makes a female "wife material," with diverse opinions reflecting individual values and expectations. The conversation highlights the importance of privacy, respect, and shared goals in building a lasting partnership.Finally, we discuss conflict resolution strategies in relationships, emphasizing the importance of communication, understanding, and sometimes seeking a neutral third party. Our hosts share their personal approaches and the significance of maintaining responsibilities even during disagreements.Join us for an engaging and insightful episode that offers a fresh perspective on relationships from a male viewpoint. Don't forget to share and tell a friend about "Men Up For Mars"!

Friday Jun 21, 2024
Unveiling Emotions and Expectations: Men and Relationships
Friday Jun 21, 2024
Friday Jun 21, 2024
Welcome to today's show where our hosts and panelists dive into the lingering questions from our lady listeners, offering a male perspective on emotions, roles, and expectations in relationships. We introduce our guests, including Melvin from New York, Jermaine from Jersey, and Koshan, our main host.The discussion kicks off with Melvin addressing how men acknowledge and process emotions, emphasizing openness and the benefits of sharing emotions in a relationship. This conversation transitions into an exploration of societal norms and the challenges men face in expressing vulnerability.The episode then tackles the perceived rift between men and women, especially within the black community, regarding roles in relationships. The panelists discuss historical, societal, and personal factors contributing to this divide, offering diverse perspectives and experiences.We also delve into the needs of men in relationships, highlighting the importance of respect, peace, and emotional support. The conversation extends to the expectations men have before and after intimacy, shedding light on the communication gaps and the importance of discussing expectations openly.Join us for an insightful and candid discussion that unravels the complexities of emotions, roles, and expectations in relationships.

Friday Jun 14, 2024
Navigating Victim Disparity and Relationship Dynamics
Friday Jun 14, 2024
Friday Jun 14, 2024
Welcome to today's show, where we dive into some thought-provoking questions and discussions sent in by our listeners. In this episode, we explore the concept of victim disparity, particularly focusing on how it affects men in situations of domestic violence and abuse. Our guests, Tank and Damon, share their personal experiences and insights on this pressing issue, shedding light on the societal challenges men face when seeking help and support.
We also delve into the dynamics of relationships, discussing the reasons why men might seem to become better partners for their next significant other compared to their ex. Our panel debates on the importance of communication, personal growth, and the influence of past experiences on future relationships.
Additionally, we tackle the controversial topic of jealousy in relationships, especially when it comes to "work spouses" and the boundaries of friendships at the workplace. Our listeners share their perspectives on trust, respect, and maintaining healthy boundaries in relationships.
Join us for an engaging and insightful conversation that aims to challenge societal norms and provide a deeper understanding of the complexities of relationships and victim disparity.